Saturday, September 10, 2011

Whitney's BYU Adventure

Finally...here are some photos of our trip to Provo to take Whitney to BYU. Go Cougars! So proud of Whitney being accepted by BYU & her willingness & sacrifice to learn, study & grow. I just realized I seem to have been behind the camera the whole trip, oh well.

You can't see this plant that Whitney is holding but it's a tomato & basil plant that were given to her by our Stake RS President. She took them to college & put them in her sunny window. She says the Tomato is still alive & looking like she just might get her one & only tomato someday soon. With tomatoes & basil we made margarita pizza's for a YW/RS activity before she left town. You'll all need to try them they were delish!!!


she's so cute even when she's unpacking which is not a pretty thing to do.


Here's good 'ol dad hanging the plaque I made for Whitney (and Jaelyn) as grad gifts. It's shown below & it's a quote from Pres. Monson that I thought was very appropriate for a college room.





Jaelyn got to go with us to check Whitney into her apt. Austin is helping unpack the kitchen items. I think Austin is giving his "thumbs up" in every photo. He's a funny guy.


Here are the kids packed in tight to MaKey & Poppa's van. Thank you for letting us use your van for our trip. All of Whitney's belongings would never have fit in our small compact car. It was a very fun, quick trip. Whitney finished her last final on Thursday morning at WVC & she went to visit G-pa Herrick to say goodbye & then we were off to BYU. Oh my goodness we arrived at Ryan's really early the next morning, like 2 am I believe. Thank you Ryan & Courtney for letting us stay with you, thank you for taking care of our daughter. Ryan & Courtney have been just an amazing Aunt & Uncle. They are always there for her to take her grocery shopping, provide a sunday meal, transporting her for misc reasons, giving her a bike to ride to work, finding her work & Courtney even took her for a pedicure. You two are amazing! We can't thank you enough!!!


Whitney's WHS Graduation 2011

Our darling, intelligent, daughter, graduated from WHS June 10, 2011. Fun times!!! She loved WHS & also graduated from WVC with her AA. The other day she said "Mom, I was going to college before I got my driver's license". I hadn't thought of it like that. She loves school...she loves to learn (thank goodness). So proud of you, Whitney!!! You've worked really hard these last 2 years. I also have to say thank you to a couple wonderful WHS teachers...Mr. Dan Jackson (choir) & Mr. Alexander (math). Just a couple teachers who really made a difference in the life of a high school student.
Austin sure is proud of his big sis!!!




I think this photo below is so cute. They look so genuinely happy. Great smiles :)


Once again, thank you MaKey & Poppa for taking the time to attend graduation. I know they are still in shock that their two oldest granddaughters graduated this year. Before we know it they'll be attending college graduations! For journaling purposes - MaKey & Poppa graduated from WHS in 1967, Preston - 1980, Marnie - 1987 & now Whitney - 2011.


Whitney's Seminary Graduation June 2011

Whitney was so blessed to have Sister B - Linda Bennion - as her Seminary teacher for all 4 years. Whitney adored Sister B. I could go on & on about her. She was/is an amazing gift to our family. Sister Bennion loved the students & they loved her too. She helped instill in them a love for the scriptures & a love of learning the gospel of Jesus Christ. I don't think any of us ever forget our seminary teachers. They really are a blessing from a loving Heavenly Father. How grateful I am, as a mother, for the seminary program! Sister Bennion is now in the MTC learning a new language, preparing to go the West Indies. They are going to love the Bennions & we really miss the Bennions!

Took some time after graduation for a few family photos. Trying to get these 2 kids even though they are grown up to stand side by side without poking, touching, tickling, etc. is a challenge (fun one). Preston just might have been an instigator too...yeah I think so...no surprises there.


Poppa looks really short but they were standing on the sloped driveway, Poppa at the low end. Whitney was wearing 4" heels too. She's tall, just not as tall as she looks in these pictures.


I'm so grateful that families can be together forever!!!


And here's Whit & her little babysitting buddy, Colin. Colin & his mom, Suzi came to support Whit at Seminary Graduation. thanks, Suzi. The boys, Colin & his brother, Parker, sure miss Whitney. I know Whitney misses them too. She would babysit them once a week & more than that as it got closer to her departure from Wenatchee. Now I need to add a photo of both the boys for journaling purposes. They are both so adorable & growing like weeds. Thanks Suzi for sharing your boys with our family.


Foothills Middle School Graduation

My little baby boy is growing up! No more middle school. Now it's on to High School. MaKey & Poppa had better pics of this special graduation day. I'll have to steal them from fb & add them here. I just have to say once again...where did 3 years go? Watch out WHS here comes the best looking young man I know. Love you, Austin. So proud of you & your accomplishments over the last 3 yrs.






My Handsome Boys

Another Apple Blossom (2011) Classy Chassis Car Show. Someday I will put all these photos together. I don't think you'll see a change in Preston...but Austin, well, he sure keeps growing! Have you seen how tall he is these days? I think he'll hit 6 feet before end of the school year 2012. Love my handsome boys. They sure have fun together. They are making wonderful memories to remember forever.


Catching Up - Old pictures

Here's a couple photos from Whitney's last b-day. Boy am I slow. Love these & want them on the blog in case I publish this into a book someday. Gotta do it. Love all the books i've seen. Luv...luv...this pic w/Whit & her Daddy.

On Whit's b-day her good friends Janessa & Cati came over to teach us how to make homemade spring rolls. They were absolutely delicious. Fresh ingredients with Pork & veggies inside (I believe)? The Miller sisters have been taught how to cook by their dad who is an amazing chef. We just recently had a catered dinner by him where he made Prime Rib, garlic mashed potatoes, asparagus (yes I ate it) & creme brulee for dessert. It was out celebration after the Rock n Roll 1/2 Marathon. Everything was melt in your mouth & more amazing than I can describe. thank you Millers. Now we know how to make these spring rolls. We'll have to do it when Whit comes home for Christmas vacation. Oh...Cati has been like a big sister (in Whit's place) helping Austin out in the big scary WHS. Again, thank you...girls. You're amazing!





Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mother's Day - May 8, 2011

My beautiful baby girl is growing up. This pic was taken on her 18th bday. She's beautiful, intelligent & has so many opportunities to look forward to in the near future. We are so proud of her!!! Whitney gave a wonderful talk in Sacrament Meeting today. I thought you'd all enjoy reading her sweet, thoughtful words. She gives great talks!

"President Joseph F. Smith spoke of Mothers with the highest reverence. His own mother faithfully took her family in a long journey after a mob attacked Nauvoo. Joseph talked about his mother’s sacrifice, saying, "Do you not think these things make an impression upon the mind? Do you think I can forget the example of my mother? No; her faith and example will ever be bright in my memory. What do I think! Every breath I breathe, every feeling of my soul rises to God in thankfulness to Him that my mother was a Saint, that she was a woman of God, pure and faithful, and that she would suffer poverty and distress in the wilderness and try to hold her family together rather than remain in Babylon. That is the spirit which imbued her and her children. Would not her children be unworthy of such a mother did they not hearken to and follow her example? Therefore I say God bless the mothers in Israel."
His Mother’s faith is something that hugely influenced the future prophet. I think the most important part of that is to listen to her and follow her example. Mother is there to teach us. My own mother has taught me to work hard, how to make crepes, and of all lessons, she teaches faith. One thing my mother teaches by example is to attend church every Sunday- which seems simple, but it’s really a huge part of strengthening my testimony each week……. Mothers teach so many things. Joseph F. Smith also talks about what he learned from his mother, which we all have learned from ours in one way or another. He says, "In my childhood … I was instructed to believe in the divinity of the mission of Jesus Christ…. and all my boyhood days and all my years in the world I have clung to that belief; indeed, I have never had any serious dubiety in my mind, even in childhood." Because of his mother’s teachings he was able to go on to be a man of faith, and even the 6th prophet of the church.
In a talk by President Monson, he speaks about four Mothers. Mother forgotten, Mother Remembered, Mother Blessed and Mother Loved. He says Mother Forgotten is observed all too frequently. Mothers and Grandmothers are forgotten when we’re ‘too busy.’ President Monson said, "shame on all who make of a noble woman , Mother forgotten." ….but we can make a Mother forgotten into a Mother Remembered. The well-known scripture of the Stripling Warriors is an example of Mother Remembered. The young men remembered what their Mothers had taught them, and they were able to have the blessings of the Lord upon them. In the NT Jesus sees a widow who has just lost her son. Christ had compassion on her and said, "young man, I say unto thee, Arise…and he that was dead sat up and began to speak. And he delivered him to his mother." President Monson said of this that we must have compassion on others like the Savior did, so every mother can be Mother Blessed. Lastly, Mother Loved. The poem, Which Loved Best?, truly exemplifies how we should treat our mothers.
‘I love you mother’ said little john
Then, forgetting his work, his cap went on,
And he was off to the garden swing
And left her the water and wood to bring.
‘I love you mother’ said rosy Nell
‘I love you better than tongue can tell’
Then she teased and pouted full half the day
Till her mother rejoiced when she went out to play.
‘i love you mother’ said little fan;
‘today I’ll help you all I can
How glad I am that school doesn’t keep!
So she rocked the babe till it fell asleep.
Then, stepping softly, she fetched the broom
And swept the floor and tidied the room
Busy and happy all day was she
Helpful and happy as a child could be.
‘I love you mother’ again they all said
Three little children going to bed
How do you think that Mother guessed
Which of them really loved her best?
My mom used to say ‘don’t tell me you love me, show me.’ Serving Mother is something we can never do enough of, it’s how we show her how much we love her.
Next to service, another way we can demonstrate that genuine love for Mother is to live the truths she taught. There is nothing a Mother loves more than to see her child happy and safe, which can only be achieved when her children listen and obey her teachings of the Savior and the truthfulness of the gospel.
---I know that being a Mother is a truly a divine role. A Mother’s love is so cherished, so special, because it is so close to the Love of the Savior. I’m so grateful for my Grandma Pen, and Grandma Herrick, and my Ma<3key, and of course my Mom. I love her and am grateful for all that she does for me and all that she’s taught me. Because of her I’m able to say for myself that I know this church is the true church. I have a testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith- his mother and his wife were such great examples. I know that Jesus Christ is our Savior.
 
I'm sure you understand why I am so proud of her. What a tribute to all the mother's in her life. I too am grateful to Mom/MaKey. It is hard to express words of appreciation to Mom for a life filled with service, sacrifice, unconditional love, etc. Like Whitney said I hope that I show you Mom that I love you because I certainly don't say it often enough.  
 
Not the best pic but is cute nonetheless. We took it of ourselves while goofing around in the kitchen making dinner. I love the opportunity I've been given to be a mother. It's not always easy but it's definitely worth it. Sweet tender mercies. Happy Mother's day!

Friday, January 28, 2011

And now for something not so warm and fuzzy....

And what might that be, pray tell? Why, kidney stones, of course. Yes, I'm the proud father of another one of those little buggers. But before I go too far and tell you how I got rid of it I've got to give a shout-out to my brother-in-law, John Gillett, who recently birthed several stones. I have no doubt he experienced more pain and agony than I have or ever hope to. John, I salute you!

What are kidney stones?

The kidneys produce urine by filtering minerals and metabolites from the circulatory system. Normally, these minerals simply dissolve in the urine, but they can sometimes crystalize and aggregate to form a solid mass that attaches to the kidney wall. Kidney stones can be microscopic, or as large as a golf ball.

The most common type of stone (and BTW, men are more predisposed to get them than women) is calcium oxalate, a chemical compound made up of calcium, carbon and oxygen. It forms needle-shaped crystals, and is responsible for about 80 percent of kidney stones. While it was formerly thought that a low-calcium diet might inhibit the formation of these stones, the reverse appears to be true. Calcium binds to oxalate in the digestive tract, meaning that there is less oxalate available to be absorbed into the bloodstream. Less calcium means more oxalate is filtered by the kidneys, and it may then bind with calcium in the urinary tract, causing kidney stones. Oxalate naturally occurs in high amounts in some foods, such as chocolate, sweet potatoes, spinach and beets - mostly stuff that tastes good or is good for you. But enough science...
My history of stones

While I'm obviously more susceptible to getting kidney stone I'm nowhere near as bad some folks who get several each year - thank goodness. I got my first one back in 1984, a year or so after getting home from my mission. At the time I had no idea what the symptoms meant but I remember waking up in the morning with back pain (lower flank) that just wouldn't go away. I also had blood in the urine which tints it a dark reddish-brown.

It wasn't until I went into labor at the dinner table after church one Sunday afternoon that I came to understand what was happening. My father took me to the ER and following a course of morphine and drugs to dilate my plumbing I was able to pass a stone into a strainer on the spot. It was quite the ordeal, but I was lucky.

The pain associated with kidney stones comes when the jagged little rocks decide to migrate from the kidney and get lodged in the ureter - a little tube that runs from the kidney to the bladder. Some describe the pain akin to that of childbirth, although women who've had them say it's worse. One fellow claims to have been shot in each leg with a .45 caliber bullet and it was nothing compared to kidney stones.

Flash forward to February 7, 2009. I had been passing traces of blood but had attributed it to other health issues. When I awoke early that morning that intense, unabating lower flank pain was knocking at my door and knocking hard. You break into a cold sweat, uncontrolled shivers, nausea - oh yeah, I was going into labor and knew what was happening this time. Marnie took me to the ER where all I wanted were drugs to take the pain away. They seemed to take their sweet time but eventually I found some relief. They took some pictures, didn't find anything, and sent me home a few hours later with a prescription for hydrocodone and a $1000 bill - after insurance.

Weeks went by and I sensed I had passed the stone through the ureter but it was now floating around in my bladder. You know it's there by the intermittent sensation of someone poking you in the nether regions with an ice pick. Not comfortable but I'll take it over the stones' upstream trek any day. That's when I started researching on the internet how to get rid of these evil little bast**ds. There are several home remedies out there and I generally view that kind of stuff with a jaundiced eye. But there was one that people consistently reported as being effective - not 100% for everyone but a success rate too high to ignore. I tried a couple of "doses" and within about a week I passed the stone effortlessly.

Feb. 2009 stone
Shortly after that I scheduled an appointment with my urologist (who is in another city as I don't have a lot of faith in the medical community here). He took some pics and spotted a stone in the opposite kidney. There's no telling when it would rear it's ugly head - just a matter of time.

Fast forward again to January 2011. A little over a week ago I noticed I was passing traces of blood. I couldn't be sure of the source. On Saturday the 22nd I passed a lot of blood and sensed some vague left flank pain but couldn't be sure it wasn't related to the regular back pain I experience periodically.  By Sunday or Monday I noticed those ice pick sensations in the nether regions and concluded I probably had a stone that had moved to the bladder. On Tuesday I picked up the ingredients for my home remedy and downed a dose that day and on Wednesday. I'll explain what it is later. On Thursday I skipped the dose and tried something called Chanca Piedra - translated means stone breaker. Its a plant based remedy from South America. More on that later too. Friday morning (today) I effortlessly gave birth to this little darling:


Jan. 2011 stone
I still have some vague but minor left flank pain so I'm not sure if I'm done for now. The stone the doc spotted two years ago was on the right. I can't be positive about which kidney this one came from - but I'm glad it's out. Each one has been approximately 4 mm in size.

How to get rid of a kidney stone (or what worked for me)

Most docs will just tell you to drink lots of water and take an over the counter pain reliever. If the stone gets stuck somewhere or you complain long enough, then they'll go in and extract or break it up into smaller pieces so you can pass them.

You can read about the home remedy I found here which includes over 200 testimonials from folks who found success with it. The remedy, or cocktail as I like to call it, calls for two ounces of lemon juice mixed with two ounces of olive oil. It sounds a little disgusting and it kinda is. But if you chug it down and don't 'stop to smell the roses' you'll be left with a brief, oily aftertaste that's manageable. After a few minutes you should follow this with a couple of 16 glasses of water. Within an hour you'll have the urge to tinkle - probably several times - and soon things will flow clear as you flush your kidney's out.

Some claim relief or actual passing of the stone with one dose. For others it takes more. The theory is that the lemon juice changes the pH level in the urine and promotes a breakdown of the stone. The olive oil? Probably for lubrication. Could I have passed the stone without the remedy? Most likely, eventually. Did I pass it sooner with the remedy? I'm going to say, yes!

Last Monday, while doing more research, I came across the Chanca Piedra. You can read about it here and here. It's interesting. Again, I generally don't buy into holistic medicine but I'm sure there are a lot of things found in this world that we don't fully understand outside of traditional western medicine. I ordered the supplement here which also has some information and reviews on it. (I used promo code: BIT806 for a $5 discount). It arrived on Thursday (yesterday) which is when I took it. Added to water it tastes a little like prune juice. It would be a miracle if the Chanca Piedra contributed to my passing the stone today, so for now I'll reserve judgement.

Anyway, this is my tale - and I'm stickin' with it.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Christmas Gifts

My sisters will understand this as I've been wanting one since our girls weekend in Olympia. So guess what my wonderful husband made it for me. My family thinks I'm crazy but I just love it & I'm still decorating it. Thank you Preston. You all have to have one of these. I'm using it as my motivational board for 2011. That's the first time I've typed the new year. Weird! Great memories on this photo board. I'm in the process of adding more pics & sayings to the board as well as special magnets that are just beautiful. Had to share. Hope it inspires you too! My next run is the Wenatchee Marathon Relay or 10K then Seattle Rock n Roll June 25, 2011. I'm becoming a runner!

Two different angles because the hallway is so narrow can't take one straight on. Love it! Tell me what you think. I can think of other uses & ways to decorate it. I'm just getting started. Thanks again to my wonderful, thoughtful, husband! And I must say thank you to everyone who is on this board for making all this possible. What incredible memories!